Our Wedding Gift Philosophy:
Weddings are not about gifts. The idea that we could have all of the people we care about around us at the same time to eat burgers is wild enough. While we would be grateful for any gifts, please don’t put any pressure to do anything beyond what you are comfortable with. We will not judge you if you just plop a nice card with a sonnet in the card box.
We have set up a registry for those who feel like they would like to get us something, which you can view here: https://thkfl.com/xublosky (password is #xublosky).
There are 3 options – honeymoon fund, donating to someone who has needs far and above us, and donating to the Xublosky fund. Honeymoon related items will help us do more awesome stuff while we are in Australia and New Zealand (please follow our instagrams @xubacca and @mr.goodkat for live updates). Donating to the Xublosky fund will go towards us buying a house one day and building a home office. Donating to charities will help someone in need (like actually in need…not first world problems in need).
For inquiring minds – we have all the dishes, specialty kitchen equipment, obscure table decor, and sheets one needs.
So again – give a gift, but only if you really want to, and only what you’re actually comfortable with. Do not overextend yourself for us. If you feel like the whole wedding circuit is getting a bit overwhelming, then just come eat picnic food with us. No need to be traveling to Rye AND having to get us a gravy boat. We mean it. We’ve all been there.